Boy, can I relate to what you're saying, Saqqara... "I would kill for some good junk shops, craft shops with unusual stuff, a decent flea market-the one here is mostly new "fakes" stuff and cheap novelty crap. I see all kinds of great shops in magazines and wish they could be here. The antique stores here are high-class, catering to tourists and rich summer-birds with big homes on Kiawah, etc. I also need like minds, people who don't think Precious Moments are cute and worth shelf space. On my walls I have rusty iron scraps, gargoyles, a print of Mona Lisa cut in half and put into 2 frames, silver forks bent and used as hooks, etc. People here think art is yet another painting of Rainbow Row...". Here in Red Deer, Alberta, Canada we have alot of younger, oilfield people that aren't exactly keen on anything minutely different than your average 'painting to match your sofa' way of thinking. I'll never forget a number of years ago when we lived in a small town near here that a woman I knew exclaimed about my work, "My, I didn't know that your husband's name was Art". Now, how do you reply to that in a pleasant way?
As to looking at things and figuring out how it might be used in artful ways - that's a favorite of mine, also. That's why I like thrift stores for old/used boxes, sculpture, jewelry, you name it and bring it home as a new treasure to be altered in some way. You take a used box, add paper and other odds and ends (beads, buttons, mirrors, words, etc.) add some legs (long, short, wood, metal) and you have an incredible work of art (and no, not my husband!) So, while we might not be able to change where we are and its' limitations, perhaps Artella friends can provide us with new inspiration, new ideas, new ways of looking at things. And.......sorry about your wayward husband. What a rotten thing to deal with. Best of luck.
Chameleon
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